Sunday, May 18, 2014

Baby essentials - the first few months

When I was pregnant, I did a ton of research on baby gear.  I wanted to buy the best items that we could, but without spending a lot, and definitely not "overbuy" as people often do when preparing for the arrival of their first kiddo.  Well, that didn't exactly work out as planned...  I wanted one stroller that "did everything" and we somehow ended up with four...  The cloth diapers that I originally bought didn't work out for us and I had to buy a whole new system.  The Moby wrap ended up being a pain to put on so I bought a different wrap style carrier.  And the list goes on.  So here are the things that I did find the most useful.  The starred items are my very favorites!



JJ Cole Agility Wrap - I have previously wrote about this wrap on the blog, but I love it so much that it's worth another mention.  Ten times easier to put on than the moby wrap, much more compact and lightweight, but just as useful.  Perfect for running errands or anytime you want to hold baby but remain hands free to get a few things done.  The only downside is that it comes in various sizes for the wearer so it's not one size fits all, meaning I am pretty much the only one who is able to use it.  Erik uses my homemade baby wrap when he wants to wear Arlo.  Also, I feel that the product is a little expensive for what it is.  It is basically very expensive t-shirt material.  Then again, so is the Moby...

Whale bathtub - This tub helped calm the anxiety I had about the first few baths we had to give Arlo as a slippery little newborn, as it was easy to use over the kitchen sink in the early days and works equally well sitting in the big bathtub now that he is a little older.  The insert that keeps him from sliding down is removable so when he is able to sit up well on his own for the bath, we can remove it and he can still use the tub.  I didn't originally want a baby bathtub ("just another big piece of plastic" was what I had originally thought) but this really ended up being quite useful.

Grovia Magic Stick - I have a full cloth diapering review post in the works, but this product is absolutely on my must-have baby list.  Don't ask questions.  Just buy this.  It's awesome.

A few other items worth mentioning in the diaper department, are the disposables we use at night.  Ever since I discovered Nature Babycare I have not bought any other brand of disposables.  They are the most natural diapers I could find and they fit Arlo really well.  The wipes we used when we were still doing disposables full time are Water Wipes - and I put this item on the must-have list.  These wipes have nothing but water and a tiny percentage of grapefruit seed extract to prevent mold and stuff from growing on them.  They are awesome because they contain ZERO chemicals and can be used anywhere on the body.  Love these!  While we are now using cloth diapers and wipes (except one disposable at night), these products are still worth mentioning because they were so useful early on when poor Arlo seemed to be super sensitive to any little thing that touched his rear end!

Rock n' Play - Arlo has gotten so much use out of this little cradle!  It folds in half with the push of a button so it is quite portable and easy to move around the house.  We kept it primarily in our bedroom, as that is where he would nap most often in the early days.  We also used it at night to keep him at an incline when he was sick, as well as when he was dealing with reflux.  When we took our beach trip a few weeks ago, we brought it with us and he slept the night in it.  At almost five months, he doesn't spend much time in the rock n' play anymore, but this was still one of our favorite items from the very beginning.

muslin swaddle blankets - We have used these from the beginning, but are finding them especially useful now that the weather has warmed up.  I hardly ever used them for swaddling, mostly just as a light cover, or now a sunshade over the stroller during walks.  I never worry about letting him sleep with these blankets because they are so light and airy.  I bought several secondhand from yard sales and consignment shops for around $1 each.  The price of these things new is the only con I can list.  Find these used if you can!  The very best blankets we have were actually made by Arlo's Grandmas.  Erik's Mom made us some really great flannel receiving blankets, and when my Mom saw them she loved them so much she wanted to sew us a couple more.  I don't have a picture of those handy and I can't link to them online, so you will just have to find yourself a Grammie to make you one  ;)

In the feeding department, there are several items we have bought and really liked.  I feel like I am washing bottles and pump parts around the clock and for this the boon grass drying rack has been a great item to have on hand, and much cuter on the counter top than traditional drying racks.  We also have the twig to hold the nipples and small pump parts.  If you are doing any bottle feeding or pumping, you will need this or something like it!  Our favorite bottles are the 4 oz glass bottles by Evenflo.  We have been using Dr. Browns Premie nipples as recommended by the lactation consultants early on - good for breastfed babies of any age since the flow is so slow.  Only recently did we switch to the level 1 nipples to increase the feeding pace a bit.


And finally, I will mention all those strollers we ended up with...  I picked up a chicco liteway in like-new condition at a yard sale when I was pregnant.  I got an amazing deal on it, and we have used it a few times.  I know it will be great when he is a little bigger, but right now we are primarily using his car seat and his snap-n-go.  Since he has an infant car seat that easily pops in and out of the car, it is easy to just set it in his snap-n-go so if he is sleeping we don't need to wake him up to put him in a separate stroller.  I know they make entire car seat and stroller systems that go together, but those strollers always seemed to big and clunky to me.  This little stroller frame is super lightweight and easy to throw in the back of our cars.  Unfortunately both of these strollers are not practical for the long walks that we take everyday with Lucy.  Enter the jogging stroller.  After much research we decided to buy the Baby Jogger Summit X3. We absolutely love it.  I can't say that it is great for toting around town, but for neighborhood walks I can't imagine a better ride for Arlo!  I wish there was a single stroller system in existence that worked for all of our needs - getting around town, walking the neighborhood, super portable, etc. but so far I haven't figured out what that might be.  Always taking suggestions if you have them!


I hope that you found this list useful if you are furiously researching baby stuff as I did while pregnant, or if you are just keeping these things in mind for down the road.  Next up - little Arlo is almost five months old and some big changes have happened this month.  Stay tuned for the update!

First tooth!

Every morning for the past week, I have woke up with excitement to see if it was here yet.  I knew it was coming, but wasn't sure when it would finally arrive.  Yesterday morning, I discovered it was here...

Arlo's first tooth!

First tooth -- May 17th, 2014

I think the one next to it is on it's way as well.  My Mom said she remembers my first tooth coming in on my Grandfathers birthday.  I was four and a half months old, same as Arlo is right now.  Like mama, like son  :)

Tuesday, May 6, 2014

beach baby

This past weekend we took Arlo on his first beach vacation.  Surely he won't remember it, or the next few trips to follow, but I like to think he had a great time anyway. Our friend Melissa and her little boy Tommy live near Wilmington, so one of the highlights of any beach trip is a visit with them! Baby T is exactly 4 weeks younger than Arlo. I am hoping they will be great friends when they are a little older! Here are a few pics of our visit with them:


Arlo 4 months old, Tommy 3 months old

Three of my favorite people  :)

Saturday night we had a family date night at a delicious Thai restaurant in Willmington. We agreed to be put on the wait list for outside seating since we weren't in any particular hurry to eat. We really didn't think much about dining al fresco, we just wanted to enjoy the awesome weather we were having. As it turns out, the outside seating at this place is reason enough to eat there, as everyone gets their own little private pagoda! The food was incredible and Arlo was well behaved (for the most part.)

Erik and Arlo outside the Thai restaurant

Arlo at the restaurant, entertaining us with his babbling

On Sunday morning we headed to the beach to enjoy the salty air and sunshine. It was still too cold to swim, but we did dip Arlo's feet in the water for a quick second, just so we could say he went in the ocean ;)

Get ready for beach picture overload...

the bike trailer we used to haul our gear down to the beach made the perfect little spot for Arlos morning nap!

weird "sand rock" thing Erik found on the beach

beach baby

right ear scrunched forward and belly hanging out...  hehe

I would consider our first trip as a family of three a great success!  We even managed to cloth diaper during the trip, except for at night and during the car ride there and back. I was nervous about how I was going to maintain my pumping schedule on the road and as it turns out it was a lot earlier than I thought it would be. I brought along my heavy duty hospital grade pump that I am renting from the birthing center, and a power inverter for the car, and just pumped when we were stopped someplace and Arlo needed to be fed.  No big deal at all.  This was a good practice run for the trip we are planning to take up to D.C. next month to visit family.  Arlo slept the entire drive to the beach and again on the way back home, let's hope he decides to do the same for our next road trip!

Friday, May 2, 2014

Arlo: 4 months old

Hey baby!  Here is the scoop on Arlo at four months old:

Arlo, 4 months old

Sleeping:  Right around the start of his fourth month, Arlo started to sleep through the night.  His last feeding of the day is around 10-11pm and after that he usually sleeps until 6 am, sometimes longer!  Several nights in the past week though, he has woken up to eat around 3 or 4 am, so I think he might be going through a growth spurt which is common around four months of age.

Eating:  Arlo is still eating four ounces at each feeding, averaging seven "meals" per day.  The first half of the day he will want to eat every three to four hours, but come evening time he is ravenous and can't seem to get enough.  This has been his usual behavior for several months now, so I feel like not a lot has changed this month in terms of feeding.

I am still exclusively pumping, and the nipple pain has not resolved yet.  It has however, decreased a bit and is something I can tolerate.  At this point I don't plan to even try to feed him at the breast again, I have accepted how things are and I am ready to move past the constant anxiety I have been feeling to "fix" these issues so we can get back to the breast.  I will keep pumping as long as I can, supplementing with the donor milk we have until it runs out, and then possibly needing to add in some formula if we don't acquire more donor milk.  I have made my peace with all this, and let me tell you, it feels incredibly liberating!

Arlo, 4 months old

Weight and length: Arlo had his four month check-up with the pediatrician today.  He weighed in at 13 lbs 2 ounces, putting him in the 7th percentile for weight, which is about where he has been since birth.  He has grown to 24 1/4" in length, and the big surprise was his head circumference - just over 17 inches, putting him in the 98th percentile!  Ha! 

Wearing:  Last week I packed up all of his "3 month" size clothes, and he is now wearing all 3-6 month onesies and shirts, and still in the 6 month size pants and shorts to fit over his cloth diapers.  Since the weather has warmed up I have been able to start using my favorite clothing item on him - the little one piece rompers I picked up a while back.  There is nothing cuter, or easier to change his diaper in, than those cute little rompers!  I plan to have him live in these things until the weather turns cold again.

Likes and dislikes:  Arlo is still interested in the ceiling fan believe it or not, but he also has a few new likes too.  He will smile at Lucy when he sees her, but his biggest smiles come when he sees our faces.  He has started to give us his first real belly laughs when we tickle him, and this kid absolutely loves to be naked now.  With nearly every diaper change, the little guy smiles and starts kicking his legs excitedly.  This can make putting his diaper and clothes back on quite the challenge at times!  He only takes a pacifier when he is really sleepy and will use it for a minute and then spit it out.  Lately he has taken to sucking on his fingers and does this several times a day, which I suppose is his own version of a paci!
The only time Arlo will really cry is if he is hungry or too warm.  I recently learned the hard way about his strong dislike for being too warm, let's just say it involved the ergo carrier, a local Target store, and the biggest meltdown ever.  And no... I won't be setting foot back into that Target for a while!

New milestones and developments:  I feel like we are on the verge of some big things happening, but we are just not quite there yet.  He isn't rolling over all the way but will roll from his back to his side pretty easily.  He is starting to reach out to grab things, but hasn't yet made the connection about opening his hand and then closing it around the object.  I recently bought him an oball rattle which is really easy for his little fingers to grab and hold if I put it in front of him.  He seems to like it but loses interest after a minute or so when he realizes it won't fit in his mouth.  I am looking forward to these upcoming months as I feel like our playtime will be quite fun and a lot more interactive!


Arlo, 4 months old