Wednesday, May 27, 2015

Breaking up with May.

Justin Timberlake, you can suck it. Singing about the month of May with that cute face of yours.  Making me think it was going to be all awesome and stuff.  May was a pretty crappy month in more ways than one.  I think when I last checked in I was just getting over the stomach flu and chiggers and a back injury.  Barely was I feeling better when all three of us got sick with a respiratory infection that still lingers on for Arlo and I, and this past weekend I came down with a not-so-lovely case of food poisoning.  I have literally been sick in one form or another for an entire month.  If June doesn't bring us a better bill of health I am officially sterilizing everything we own and not leaving the house or letting anyone in until the sickness is gone.  Germs, you are being evicted. 

Moving day is scheduled for this Saturday (that is just three days in case you are not so good with the math) and for the past week I have been teetering on the verge of freaking out.  I'm really not very good with big changes, even a good one like this will be.  However, today for some reason I woke up feeling a bit better, health wise and emotionally, and am looking forward to this weekend and all the changes the move will bring.  I have decided to dive right in to our new environment and have signed Arlo and I up for child-parent swim lessons close to the new house that start a couple of days after we move in.  I have also already joined a couple of meetup groups in the area, and researched all the best parks and library story times.  I won't be working much at first, if at all, and while I totally want to embrace the whole "slow parenting" movement this summer, where not a lot of activities are planned and each day is taken as they come, I also like the idea of getting out and meeting other kids and moms in our new area.  

I think this summer will be a good one.  For now, I've got to get back to work.  These boxes don't pack themselves.  However they do seem to unpack themselves, but that could just be my little toddler trying to help.  Oh, and in case you were wondering, the puns were intentional.  

And finally..... These boys.  


June, I'm ready for ya.  Let's do this.

Friday, May 8, 2015

Arlo Eats - Toddler edition 1.0

It's been a while since I shared a detailed post about what Arlo eats. In fact, my last post was when he was around nine months, and eating mostly puffs and purées! Things have changed a lot since then.  As mentioned in his 15 month update, shortly after his one year birthday, we switched him to a fully plant based diet.  I did a lot of research on toddler nutrition before we made this change, especially in the non-dairy milk department.  It is also worth mentioning for any new readers that I have been vegan for eight years now, and have formal training both as a nurse and a cooking and nutrition instructor for The Cancer Project, a non-profit organization that focuses on educating the public about a plant-based diet.  So this wasn't something that I just made up as went along, and not something that I take lightly either. That being said - if you are thinking of starting your child on a plant based diet I highly encourage you to do a lot of research on your child's nutritional needs, as well as consult with your pediatrician. Ok, disclaimer out of the way - onto the good stuff!


Our mornings usually begin around 6:45am when Arlo wakes up, and by 7:00am or so we are downstairs in the kitchen to get breakfast started.  This is the one meal that doesn't tend to vary too much, and he usually eats the same thing every morning without complaint.  He always gets fruit - usually 1/2 banana, mixed organic berries (whatever looks good that week at the store), and 1/2 a kiwi or clementine.  In addition to that, I make a special dish of oatmeal just for him, which consists of quick oats (from the bulk bin at Whole Foods), cinnamon, nut butter (usually sunflower or almond), flax oil (about a teaspoon), and just a touch of maple syrup to give it a little sweetness.  Sometimes I also add in raisins or blueberries.  Up until recently, I was spoon and fork feeding him everything, although he has been practicing with utensils at school since he started there.  Recently, he got a hold of the fork I was using to feed him his dinner, and started using it all on his own!  I didn't think he was ready quite yet, and suspected we would end up with quite the mess, but he actually does a decent job at stabbing his food with the fork and bringing it to his mouth.  The spoon is a little more challenging but he is starting to get the hang of it.




Arlo's oats - I just put everything in a small glass bowl, add some hot water from the kettle, mix and let sit for 3-4 minutes, and it's ready to eat!  If it is too hot, I add in a few frozen blueberries which makes it the perfect temp.

I have tried offering Arlo milk with his meals, but he actually much prefers water.  So he gets a bottle or sippy cup of milk mid-morning between breakfast and lunch, a smoothie with his mid-afternoon snack, and a bottle before bed.  Overall he typically takes in 16-18 ounces of milk per day.

Depending on the day and how hungry he is, Arlo will sometimes get a mid-morning snack around the time of his milk.  Today I gave him Organic O's (Whole Foods version of Cheerios) in his snack catcher while we were out for our morning walk.  I should also mention that 95% of what Arlo eats is organic.  The pesticides in our food supply are not good for any of us, but are especially important to avoid in growing children.  We always choose organic whenever possible, and depending on the food will sometimes not even buy unless an organic version is available.


We usually eat lunch between 11:30am and noon, and Arlo goes down for his nap shortly after.  This is the schedule they follow at school, and it works great for us at home as well.  Arlo's lunches, as are mine, are typically leftovers from the previous nights dinner.  Today Arlo had green peas and baked tofu, raw carrot sticks, and seed crackers with hummus.  He will usually also get fruit or raisins for dessert.  I always wait until he is done with his main meal before giving him dessert, otherwise he will fill up on fruit and leave the other stuff on his plate.  He is a fruit monster, it is definitely his favorite food right now.





After his nap, sometime between 2 and 3pm, it's snack time.  When it is not a school day and we are at home, I always make him a smoothie.  I make it a little differently each day, but the basics are usually his milk mixture, banana, frozen berries, hemp or flax oil, and nuts or a nut butter.  Today I used banana, milk, blueberries, hemp oil, and walnuts.  I also gave him a few graham crackers.  Other afternoon snacks might include cereal, raisins, carrot sticks, non-dairy yogurt, fig bars, pretzels, or fresh fruit like orange wedges, apple slices, or quartered grapes.



Oh, and a word on his non-dairy milk mixture.  Arlo drinks a blend of hemp, oat, soy, and flax milks, combined in equal portions.  Together, they provide good amounts of fat, calcium, protein, and calories.  Every few days I mix up a big glass pitcher of his milks so it's ready to go when I need to make a smoothie or bottle and I don't have to get out all four milk cartons.


all of his milks are "unsweetened" as Arlo gets plenty of natural sugars from all the fruits he eats.  the oat milk is naturally very sweet without any added sugar which adds a slight sweetness to the milk mixture.

Evenings are when things tend to get a little challenging in our house from a food perspective.  Arlo usually gets hungry around 5pm, which to feed him at that time would require me to start dinner around 4pm if he was going to eat what I was cooking for Erik and I.  The problem is, Erik doesn't get home until 6pm or after, so I usually end up serving dinner twice.  Today, as I often have been recently, I opted to make Arlo his own dish, and fed him his meal around 5:15.  Erik and I ate together when he got home from work, and I gave Arlo a few bites of my food while we were eating, even though he had already finished his and been cleaned up long before we sat down to eat.  Today, Arlo had mashed avocado on whole grain flax bread, corn, berries, and a bowl of leftover lentils I made the previous day.  I often make a super simple pot of red lentils, spinach, and some Earth Balance or olive oil for healthy fats.  I also add a tiny pinch of salt for flavor.  Arlo loves this dish and it will keep in the fridge for several days.  I am hoping that after we move closer to Erik's new job we can return to eating together as a family, but for now this is my temporary solution to keep everyone fed and happy.




lentil dish.  this one also had quinoa, millet, and butternut squash.


And just in case you were curious as to what Erik and I had...

Cuban black beans with onion, bell peppers, corn and tomato.  side of brown rice with avocado, cilantro, radish, and lime.  yum!


And to answer a question that I am prepared to do many times in the coming years when people learn that Arlo is being raised on a plant-based diet:

"Your kid is a vegan?!  But where does he get his..."

Protein:  nut butters, beans, lentils, quinoa, tofu and tempeh (eaten a few times per month), soy milk, non-dairy yogurts, flax milk which is fortified with pea protein, and the oat milk and hemp milk that he drinks have small amounts as well (4g and 2g respectively per serving.)

iron:  leafy greens, beans, tofu, lentils, and quinoa.

calcium: calcium-fortified non-dairy milks, broccoli and leafy greens, beans, and tahini.

fat: avocado, hemp oil, flax oil, nut butters, flax seed, tahini, tofu, and tempeh.

vitamin B12:  nutritional yeast and fortified non-dairy milks.

* please note that lots and lots of foods have small amounts of protein, fat, and iron.  Take broccoli and sunflower seeds for example.  You might not think of them necessarily as a good source of iron or protein, but broccoli has 4 grams of protein and 1.1 mg of iron per cup!  Sunflower seeds have 3.3 grams of protein and 1.2 mg of iron per 1/4 cup.  These foods might not get you to your recommended daily allowance on their own, but those little bits here and there add up throughout the day.

And lastly, some of our favorite food-related products, many are seen in the photos above:

Pura Kiki stainless steel cups: In my quest to eliminate all plastic from Arlo's life, I bought these sippy cups a few months ago.  These were the only 100% plastic-free cups I could find, as the vessel is stainless steel and the spout is pure silicone.  Overall, I do like these cups.  They come with regular bottle nipples for a younger baby, and you can also purchase a silicone straw top instead of the sippy spouts.  Arlo took to these right away, and we often use them in place of his bottles.  The downsides - they are not the easiest to clean, they are insanely expensive (the three bottles, silicone sleeves, and sippy spouts and shipping cost somewhere between $60-70.  ouch.)  As well if they sustain a fall from a high chair or table, they dent pretty easily.  Probably not something I would buy more of, but we do get a lot of use out of the few that we have.  I eventually realized that a completely plastic-free existence is not only expensive but stressful as well, so I relaxed my no-plastic rules and bought these:

Re-Play Plates: Another mom blogger I follow recommended these, and my local evil big box store carries them (for less than $5 a pack) so I decided to give them a try.  We love them.  Easy to clean, super durable, and fun colors too.  I like that the food can sit in divided compartments, and I think Arlo likes that too.

OXO roll-up bib:  Love, love, love this bib.  We have another pocket-style bib that we used for many months before I discovered these.  The problem with it is that the whole thing is rigid rubber, which seems uncomfortable for Arlo and has even pinched his neck a couple of times.  These OXO bibs are awesome - soft up top but have a sturdy pocket to catch dropped food.  Easy to clean, waterproof, and they roll up compactly for travel.  I bought two and haven't used another bib since.

snack catcher:  nothing too fancy here, just a little non-spill snack container that Arlo can use to feed himself his Organic O's, raisins, pretzels, and other small snacky foods.  We started using this when he was around 10 months old, but it took him a while to realize it wasn't some game I was providing him with, and that the goal wasn't to pull out giant fistfuls of food to then feed to the dog.

silicone placement:  I don't know the brand, but I recently found an inexpensive 100% silicone placemat at Target for around $4.  It is perfect for eating out at restaurants, folds up small, and is easy to clean.  I love that it keeps his food off the restaurant table, as well as makes cleaning up the mess easier for us.


So there you have it, everything our little foodie baby is up to at 16 months old!  And a couple more of my favorite meal time photos...

cheese-ball face
the face of a little guy who just drank his smoothie out of a regular cup.

Saturday, May 2, 2015

currently.

This past week has been quite the wild ride. Definitely not one that I wish to repeat, but it wasn't all bad...


Feeling:  sick. Oh, the sickness. First, let's start with last week when Arlo came down with a high fever which turned into a rash that kept him out of school for a day. He recovered from that with no issue but then at the beginning of this week started spiking fevers again (I am talking 103 to nearly 105 degrees F). Scary high. He didn't have any other symptoms except the fever though, and I decided if he was still febrile on Wednesday I would take him to the pediatricians office. Thankfully by Wednesday afternoon his temp was normal, but I came down with the stomach flu that evening. For two days I ate literally nothing and existed on broth and ginger ale (tried some crackers but those didn't stick if you get what I'm saying) but today I woke up feeling about 60% better. Still no appetite but at least I kept down a handful of crackers this morning. However, what woke me up (at 4:15am I might add) was a whole bunch of itchy, red, bug bite-looking welts on my legs, stomach, arms, and neck. Was there a spider in my bed last night?! And for some icing on the cake, this morning I picked up Arlo from the dining table bench he had climbed onto, and when I did felt and heard a loud pop in my lower back which sent me directly to the floor in excruciating pain. WTF. I'm currently in bed with pillows all around me, hoping the aleve I recently took will do something (anything) for the pain.


Eating:  nothing. ugh. And I love food...


Watching:  ok here I can write about some good stuff!  I finished Parenthood a few weeks ago (so,so,so good), and while I tend to not like the way that most shows end, I actually thought this I ended perfectly. Erik and I also finally finished up Sons of Anarchy and I have never been more relieved to finish a show. I also thought this one ended well, but the increasing violence and brutality over the past few seasons was not doing anything good for my anxiety and I am so happy we can replace that show with something else on Netflix!  

I guess that finishing Parenthood had left some void in my soul for a family-type drama (and apparently Lauren Graham) as I recently started Gilmore Girls and love it.  Rhianna recommended it to me and what a good recommendation it was!  The starting of this show coincided well with getting sick as I have spent many hours watching it these last few days. I have a feeling that this is one of those shows that will continue to get better as the seasons go on, but for that I will have to wait and see!


Making: oh how I wish that while I was stuck on the couch these past few days I could have been crocheting something awesome, however I couldn't even sit up let alone hold a hook and my yarn. Someday, probably much later in life, I will find time to get crafty again. For now though, I have set my expectations very, very low I this department, as to avoid disappointment when it doesn't happen.


Looking forward to:  not being sick/itchy/in excruciating pain!  Going outside for the first time in... 48 hours?  Eating a plain cheese (plant-based) pizza, hopefully later today.  Mellow Mushroom is calling my name (yes they have vegan and gluten free pizza there!)  And when I say eating a pizza, I should really clarify that this will likely be only one tiny slice cause I'm sure that's the maximum my stomach will allow me to have.


Announcing:  despite the sick and somewhat crummy week we are all having, there is one happy ray of light that came through for us.  We found a house and are officially under contract!  I have mixed feelings over the whole thing though. One one hand, I knew this was coming, have been really looking forward to figuring out where we are going to live, and a happy that we finally found a place.  On the other hand, it just. got. real.  We are moving - away from the town we have lived in since we moved to NC, away from our friends, and away from everything we love in this area.  I am trying to focus on all the positive things, the fact that the house is awesome and checks off 95% of our wish list, the location is amazing (walking distance to a huge nature park, trails, playgrounds, and a greenway) and how we will now be much, much closer to Eriks work.  But it's hard not to get a little sad when I think about leaving so many things that I love behind...


Loving:  this new app I found called Skin Deep by the Environmental Working Group.  You might have come across their website in the past, or at least read about some of the research they have done.  The EWG tests the ingredients of various skin, cosmetic, and body products and then gives them a score based on how toxic (or non-toxic) they are determined to be.  This whole thing started when I was doing some research on the best natural sunscreen for young kids. I learned that the sunscreen we were using last year, while it claimed to be all natural and actually worked really well, contains some questionable ingredients and is not something I would want to purchase again. I decided upon and ordered Thinkbaby 50+ SPF, as it gets fantastic reviews and scored a 1 on the EWG's scale. I think that the highest (worst) score that a product can receive is a 10, so it scores just about as low as it can.  The Skin Deep app is totally free, and has a really neat future is that allows you to search for a specific product.  You can simply type in the product name, or use your phone to scan the products barcode, and if they have the product in their database it will instantly pull it up for you and give you a breakdown of how each of the ingredients score, as was as an overall safety score.  And yes, I plan to be that lady in the beauty isle of Whole Foods, scanning product after product, making sure that what my family and I use are safe and gentle for our bodies.  No shame there!


Not loving:  this new "how old do I look" website.  Now, I know I am older than Erik (just by one year and two weeks exactly) but I am certainly not 36. Not even close.  I was just 31 when this photo was taken last year.  But hey, I will give them credit for at least figuring out that I am female. 

Want to know how old you look? Try it here: how-old.net

Botox, anyone? ;)